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Ever worried you don’t know enough?

This happens to me a lot, and it really drives me a bit crazy.  For some reason (often) in my life I find myself standing on the sideline way too long trying to figure everything out before I make that first step.  Depending on your point of view this could be seen as good or bad.  In sales, I am thinking it is not one of the better ways of doing things, but it is the only way I know.

But, things are different now.  Feel like I know enough now to get out there and get things done.  Don’t know everything that is for sure, but I do at things differently now.  Many in my life, I feel they ask me things not to just get an answer from me, but more to see what I do or do not know and they love to push peoples buttons.  They bring up anything you missed in the past to tease you or use it as proof they are smarter then you.  This has bothered me a lot in my past and I think i finally figured out how to deal with it.  Simply don’t do business with those type of people.  Eliminate them from my life is the best answer.  It is something that drives me crazy about me.

October 1, 2009 - Posted by Rolland | Thoughts | , , | 1 Comment

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  1. I know what you mean…but sadly, there are a lot of people that do that. People that are “button Pushers” I believe often times are not trying to make themselves look better, but to try and convience themselves they are as good as you… When people hold on to mistakes you have made it is to make them feel better about themselves. I think they often look up to you and are embarrased to admit it. I know you… you are wicked smart and I think you observe things that others do not and you don’t think of it as different. SOOOO you intimadate people, they may be concerned if you are going to see their flaws as well. SO they try to build a protective wall around themselves — to prevent further observations from you. I also believe if those people knew you better they would see, you are not seeing them and bad, stupid or whatever but you admire them and when you notice things about them it is not to tear them down, but simply that an observation. It is sometime hard even for me your sister, to phrase things when I am talking to you because I am making sure you are not going to over think what I say. DONT GET ME WRONG I don’t really “hold back” too much because youre my brother and I konw you HAVE TO LOVE ME>.. heeeheeee heee … Don’t eliminate them, just be leery, they may be youre next real advocate!

    LOVE YOU!
    xoxoxox
    e

    Comment by Erika | October 2, 2009


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